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The unexpected sweetness of the grieving process

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The reason why it rains is because there's a high pressure system and a low pressure system right it's like you're moving from one system to another and hence there's rain right you're changing and and not for the worse hi I'm adriel creator of the herpes opportunity which is all about positively shifting your mindset disclosing to potential partners in a way that truly connects you and ultimately finding the love that you want and deserve now you can check out the free ebook linked in the description below about having the talk and now onto the video I hope you enjoy it the grieving process can be looked at as something to just get over like oh I can't wait for this to be over but then follow me here there's a sweetness to it and I know that might sound like well what the [ __ ] there's not a sweetness to herpes here it's not about the herpes it's about the vulnerability that's showing up in you right there's a sweetness to feeling this upheaval of oh intense [ __ ] emotion right and to be able to like practice holding yourself to me ...

... crying and like the grieving process it's sh it's like the it's the moving from one space to another right so this identity level shift it's like I mean if you want to get really crazy here I almost think of it as weather patterns almost the reason why it rains is because there's a high pressure system and a low pressure system right it's like you're moving from one system to another and hence there's rain right you're changing and and not for the worse either right like I want to really clarify that you're moving deeper into yourself happies and shame and all of this as shitty as it can be on one side of things it's actually leverage for taking you deeper into yourself and if there's any sort of a test here like god or the universe how how how exquisitely can you hold yourself with unconditional love as you move from one identity to another and allow it to move you deeper as opposed to let me just rush through this [ __ ] grieving process that's how to like start to reframe this as like oh this is a very tender special time and ...

... and it's not to be schluffed off I hope you got a lot out of that video and if you did please let me know please like comment and subscribe and keep an eye out for more videos just like this you

This video is part of the free "inside coaching" series.
"The grieving process and the tears you shed come from moving from one perceived identity into another ... Someone without H to someone with H. The reason why it rains is because there's a high pressure system and a low pressure system. You're moving from one system to another, and hence, there is rain. You're changing. And not for the worst. You're moving deeper into yourself."

There is a sweetness to the vulnerability that is showing up in you right now. In this grief. There's a sweetness in being with yourself in such a deep way. Holding all of it (the intensity, the sadness, the fear, the tears) in a non-judgmental way. As shitty as this process can feel sometimes, it's leverage for taking you more deeply into yourself. How exquisitely can you hold yourself with unconditional love as you move from one identity to another? Avoid the tendency of rushing through the grieving process. You might be missing some powerful experiences during this very tender, special time.

P.S. This video is part of the free "inside coaching" series.