"The beliefs you've inherited from your parents are worth looking at again to see if they're correct."
False beliefs can be inherited, but we can oust those beliefs and reprogram them in order to remind ourselves we are re-creating our identity day by day, moment by moment. The moment you're triggered by a false belief — that moment is the opportunity to rewire your own belief system. It's human nature to focus on the negative, so it's always going to be work to look at your own value, and look at the other side of the coin. Then you can start to settle into the identity that you're becoming. Don't fake it 'til you make it — be it until you become it.