When to have the herpes talk?

How to know when is the right time to have "the herpes talk"?

First rule: Sometime between when you meet someone and when you have sex. But we need to be a bit more precise. So many people struggle with exactly when is the best time. First few dates are too early, but a few months would feel too late. You want this person to know you on a deeper level before you disclose, but you also don't want them to feel like you've led them on too long, so where is the happy medium?

Your own personal barometer is to ask yourself this one question ...